Magnificent Methods of Mediumship, Part 3On January 31, 2019 by mysticdd-admin
Before you make a connection to the other side, you need to understand what your personal filters give you in the form of messages. I am an empathic medium which means that I work best with the energies on both sides at an emotional level. The messages I receive can be more detailed, but are most often centred around feelings: love, loss, anger, sadness, regret.
I am a big fan of John Edwards and his show Crossing Over. This would be one of my first exposures to the fact that people can be reached on the other side. What struck me was the way in which he received the messages and interpreted them for the people in the audience. It amazed me that he could get such detail in such a short period of time and be able to relay it in manner that made sense to the people receiving it. It seemed like magic. And it is in a way.
I am about to give you a glimpse behind the curtain. Have you ever had a reading that just did not resonate, either for you receiving the information, or as the reader delivering the message and no matter how you tried to explain it , the recipient just refused to accept what you provided? Be assured it is not you. It is the language barrier. We think of it when we are speaking to people who are not fluent in our native language. Think of it now.
The energy on the other side has given you information to share with their loved one. They send the information to you as energetic signals. Your intuition/radio picks up the signal and delivers the information to you. And here is where things go astray.
Information needs to have context, so we process what we receive through our own personal filters which are built and amended based on our own personal life experiences, or the library of symbols we have created to explain the information we have received.
For example, like John Edwards, I also get messages of love and affection in the symbol/image of flowers. Each flower and colour means something different to me and to the manner in which a explain it to a client. For me, red roses are deep love between spouses, yellow is parent to child, white is generationally separated, like grandparent to grandchild. Other flowers that show up usually are significant to the recipient and I need to use caution to explain it exactly as provided or it will not make sense when I say it.
This is the error spot. It is often automatic to “filter” what we receive to fit the experience we have lived.
As a medium, it is not our job to interpret the information, and it often messes up the message when we try to clean it up. The hardest part of the job is to let go of your own expectations and simply be the speaker attached to the spirit radio.
Spirit radio is what I call the energy channel where your guides and ancestors talk to you, and it also the range of energy that you tap into when you are conducting a mediumship session for someone.
Each psychic who works as a medium will have a different way of approaching a reading. And a common thread will often appear. It took some time for me, but as I did more and more readings on the free online sites, the individuals that I would be drawn to 90% of the time were from suicides. This may be hard for many to adjust to, but to me it is proof that there is a Heaven, a place beyond this. I have never yet found a suicide that was not with other family members, or was not able to reach back through and let people know that they were all right on the other side.
It is time to set aside the church created stigma that suicides cannot be “saved”. They are well and happy (usually) and to me, are a sign that death is not to be feared, for there is a destination that we will all reach.
You may have been cautioned that you need to conduct a ritual and cleanse your space, set a circle or have a special space to make your connection.
Not to take it lightly, because you do need to take care with what you do, but I can and have conducted a session with nothing more than a key on a chain standing in a parking lot.
I prefer to use my own ritual space, as I can control the energy within it, can cleanse it when I have completed the session, but mediumship on the fly is just as effective.
Remember that you can connect with any entity that was formerly alive on this plane, be it human or animal. Pet communication is always enjoyable, for theirs is a happy energy, filled with joy and contentment, and release of health issues or pain. They are almost always free of regret and only want us to understand that they loved us and that they come around to visit when they can, but that their time with us was meaningful for them too, that they shared a bond that travels through the veil. Talk to them whether or not you can see them. Acknowledge when you sense their presence. They have been a big part of your life, and will continue to be there after theirs has ended.
Maggie lived with us for 13 years. At the end, as her health was failing, I “talked” to her everyday to see if she needed medication, or special food, attention, or to be left alone. Being able to communicate beyond species barriers is a wonderful skill that you can develop the same way you develop your other psychic skill set. Simply be open to the possibility that you can talk without words, that you can empathically feel what they need. Clairsentience or claircognizance helps as you will intuitive feel or know what they are trying to say without needing an interpreter.
For work like this, and as I have a strongly developed rational brain, I try to set it aside by using a pendulum as my guide.
For those that have used a pendulum before, you will know that there are many ways to work with them, but the basic answers are going to be “yes”, “no”, and “maybe”. Each person will have their own method, but I will always ask my pendulum these few questions before every session:
Show me yes. Show me no. Can I work with you today?
The last one is because each stone or crystal that I have is different and resonates differently for the task I may be doing. My rose quartz is best for generic every day questions, like “did I leave my keys in the door?” The Dragon’s Blood Jasper and the Que Sera crystal are my go-to stones for mediumship, as they are attuned to emotion, my strength. I have a multi-layered one for Chakra and energy work as well as a blue lace agate which works best for detailed questions.
But what if you don’t have a pendulum? They are not required material in any way. I have used everything from a necklace with a cross on it, to a set of keys on a lanyard. The method is the same.
And the more I work with the energies, the less I rely on the pendulum.
I am aware of the energy centers in my palms and have programmed them in the same way as a pendulum, using my left hand to show me “yes” and my right to show me “no”. This is a subtler way to ask your guides questions when you are out in public and may not want to be swinging your pendulum around.